Spending the weekend at a youth hockey tournament gave me the opportunity goalies of all shapes and sizes competing. It's really something to see and it reminded me of a core concept of taking the position. You are the team's backbone. You are the one that the team looks to for strength, calm, intensity. When you let in a bad goal, it's imperative that you maintain that calm and show your team that it's ok. It might make you feel better if you let out a fit of frustration but it may make your team lose just a little bit of confidence in you.